When Art Finds Your Inner Child

What children can teach us about art and making, "Benito Bowl" memes, a NYC guide to an offbeat Valentine's Day, and the aesthetics of liminality.

On this Valentine's Day, I'm thinking about the place of art in love, and how artistic observation, appreciation, and disagreement have helped me cultivate compassion in my own relationship. My partner and I are both passionate, hard-headed people (I'm an Aries, he's a Taurus, pray for us), and when we're at odds, neither of us is good at surrendering. But in our shared experiences of art — in conversation and in quiet reflection — we bare the soulful sensitivity that is the fertile soil of empathy. Our edges soften; our breath deepens. We make room for nuance. Art, as Agnes Martin so precisely said, “is the concrete representation of our most subtle feelings.”

In this week's edition, artist and educator Mónica Palma shares her own discoveries in art and making through her work with children, finding inspiring expressions in their intimate, often physical engagements with the world. Damien Davis muses on the meaning of an artist's archive and the pain of its loss, and Ed Simon breaks down the uncanny aesthetics of liminality. Finally, whether you're spending today with your lover(s), friends, or solo, we put together a guide of art-filled (and a little sexy) events in NYC for inspiration.

—Valentina Di Liscia, senior editor


Mónica Palma, “Vaho/Fog″ (2025) at Underdonk Gallery in the Lower East Side (image courtesy the artist)

Teaching Children Taught Me How to Be an Artist

Biting surfaces, tasting toys, and producing an orchestra of incomprehensible sounds are mundane activities for young children, but for Mónica Palma, these interactions revealed new ways to understand her body, her identity, and her practice. “From all the ages that I worked with, my favorite were the two-year-olds,” Palma writes. “One child in my classroom had only a handful of words and a finger for pointing. With those minimal tools, she knew how to speak to the world. I didn’t notice shame or frustration, just presence.”


News

Amy Sherald, “Ecclesia (The Meeting of Inheritance and Horizons)” (2024) (courtesy the artist and Hauser & Wirth)

From Our Critics

Detail of AMBOS (Art Made Between Opposite Sides), “Con nuestras manos construimos deidades / With our hands we build deities” (2023) (photo Tara Ann Dalbow/Hyperallergic)

The Importance of Making “Degenerate” Art

Here, the term is reclaimed not as an insult but as an ethical position: art that refuses neutrality, civility, or institutional comfort. | Tara Anne Dalbow

Does It Have to Mean Something to Be Great?

Joanne Greenbaum’s cacophonous symphony of individual marks, shapes, and colors coheres without obscuring the individuality of each element. | John Yau

Spain’s Cosmic Mother of Modernism

Maruja Mallo viewed herself as an extension of her modernist paintings, in which female energy is a conduit for natural and even otherworldly forces. | Lauren Moya Ford

A Surprisingly Enjoyable Show About Critical Theory

An exhibition about the influence of French critical theory on American art finds inspiration in diasporic thinkers like Frantz Fanon and Aimé Césaire. | Cat Dawson

Amanda Ross-Ho Finds Herself in Her Parents’ Art

The artist’s current show is a moving reflection on the ways our identities are inexorably entangled with our relationships and surroundings. | Alex Paik


More to See in NYC

Vaginal Davis, “The Wicked Pavilion: Tween Bedroom” (2021) (photo by Steven Paneccasio, courtesy MoMA PS1)

Your Guide to a Sexy, Artsy, Non-Boring Valentine’s Day in NYC

A Brooklyn zine fair, an exhibition on sex and cults, and other activities to spend the day with your lover, your polycule, or just yourself. | Greta Rainbow

Five Shows to See in New York City Right Now

Three millennia of storytelling at the Morgan, Goya’s visions of war, Alison Nguyen’s diasporic tale, and Indigenous artistry in every medium imaginable. | Lisa Yin Zhang and Valentina Di Liscia


Opinion

Detail of Damien Davis, “My Brother and Me” (2018) (photo courtesy the artist)

When Artists Lose Their Archives

I couldn’t afford my storage unit anymore. After it was auctioned off, I found out that parts of my lost work were being sold online. | Damien Davis

Israel’s Plan to Artwash Genocide at the Venice Biennale

The artwork at the heart of the pavilion promises to continue the project of denying Palestinian existence.

NYC Deserves a Culture Commissioner Who Cares

The city is in a deep affordability crisis that is reshaping who can live and work here, and which institutions can survive. | Gonzalo Casals and Mauricio Delfin


Art in the Threshold

Thomas Lanigan-Schmidt. “Lollipop Knick Knack (Let’s Talk About You)” (c. 1968–69) (photo courtesy Pavel Zoubok Gallery)

The Unruly Politics of Glitter

In the visual arts, glitter has been used to make the presence of such marginalized identities impossible to overlook. | Francesco Dama

How Liminalism Became the Defining Aesthetic of Our Time

This crowd-curated digital movement is one of the most pertinent and explicit reactions to our particular slice of dystopian late capitalism. | Ed Simon


Community

Mary Lovelace O’Neal in her studio in Mérida, Yucatán, Mexico (photo by Karen Jenkins-Johnson, courtesy Jenkins Johnson Gallery New York and San Francisco)

Beer With a Painter: Mary Lovelace O’Neal

“At this marvelous hard-won age, the days of jumping and dancing with the paintings are over. But I don’t feel limited,” the 84-year-old artist, educator, and Civil Rights luminary tells Jennifer Sammet in an interview. O’Neal splits her time between Oakland, California, and Mérida, Mexico, where she was staying when she spoke with Sammet over the phone in December.

Art Problems: Should I Sell My Work to People Whose Politics I Hate?

In an art market flush with conservative collectors, it might seem challenging to avoid selling work to patrons with abhorrent politics. But art advice columnist Paddy Johnson explains that artists have more agency than they think to do the right thing. "You might need sales to survive, but any given collector is usually replaceable," she writes in the latest Art Problems.

Art Movements: Another Artforum Editor-in-Chief Is Out

Tina Rivers Ryan steps down from the disgraced publication, the Studio Museum names three artists-in-residence, Queens Museum names a new leader, and a deeply unnecessary new Jeff Koons collab in our weekly roundup of industry news.

A View From the Easel

This week, Ileana García Magoda from Acatitlán, Mexico, and Renee Levin from Rumson, New Jersey, experiment with papier-mâché and crave natural light. "Getting sun helps me focus and acts as a warm-up before painting,” says García Magoda. Your studio could be next!

Required Reading

Gladys Nilsson subverts ageist myths, letters from children in ICE detention, Heathcliff and whiteness, Toñita at the Super Bowl, Japanese incense clocks, and more must-reads from around the internet.


From the Archive

Detail of Gerard Francois Pascal Simon, “Psyche and Cupid” (1978) (via Wikimedia Commons)

Cupid Shoots Through Millennia of Art

The god of love and desire has fascinated and inspired artists since antiquity. | Hakim Bishara